WHAT IFS....... OF LIFE

WHAT IFS…. OF LIFE
The day we came to this world, unknown about life and helpless about even fulfill the basic needs is the day that starts the journey of our life, completely out of one’s control.
Then the child grows and so the emotional attachment to all this worldly things. No dreams, nothing, only curious about the things around. At this stage all the dreams about the little child are conceived in the mind of the two individuals responsible for its existence.
The slightly grown up child, like a small stream of water, finds its usual way as its nature, but the parents always try to make dams and bridges across the stream to modify its path according to their dreams. They might unaware that the little child has some dreams now.
Time passes away and the child becomes a grown up man and in a state which is the results of all the dams and bridges that are constructed on the stream of life by the controller parents knowingly or unknowingly.
The independent ( seems to be) man now thinks about the past years from the vary past till memory supports and the present state, again dreams about what is called the ‘what if’ phenomena ( obviously in my terms).
All the incidents responsible more or less about the present state rotates inside the mind and gives a long list of ‘what ifs’ with lots of probability involved.
As the very human nature the what if about being more well being is thought, this gives a state of instability in the mind.
At this situation the person forgets about the more bad things that might could have happened in the life making it lots more miserable than the present situation. This brings the mental stability what a person needs to lead a sound life.



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